Tuesday, January 8, 2013

SAND DOLLAR: A Story Of Undying Love by Sebastian Cole - INTERVIEW & GIVEAWAY (International)

Today I am thrilled to have on the blog talented Sebastian Cole, author of an emotional and intensely romantic fantasy.  Welcome to Mina’s Bookshelf, Sebastian. Thank you for taking the time to answer a few questions about yourself and your debut novel Sand Dollar: A Story Of Undying Love.





Q. Please, tell us something about yourself and how you started your adventure as a writer of romantic fiction. 


After graduating Brown University in the 80s with a degree in Economics (Economics, of all things!), I worked in corporate America for twenty years until I decided to take a leap of faith and leave my family’s business to pursue my dreams. So I put myself on a path that I’d hoped would lead to happiness and personal fulfillment. But at my age, figuring out which path to take was not as easy as I had thought. About three years ago, after trying several new careers without success, I conceived Sand Dollar as a movie concept, which stemmed from an experience I once had while snorkeling on vacation. After diving down to pick up a sand dollar from the ocean floor, it exploded in my hand and disappeared in the clear water around me. For me, the fragile sand dollar has come to represent life, for the blessings we have in our lives today are easily shattered tomorrow. I wanted the world to look at sand dollars differently, the way I do, though my eyes.  And I thought the visual of a sand dollar exploding on the big screen would make for an awesome opening scene in a movie. After kicking a movie treatment around for a couple of months with my brother, who has experience in writing screenplays, I made the commitment to novelize Sand Dollar into a book. And so, quite fortuitously, my career as an author had begun. I had never written a book before, and I had no idea what I was getting myself into, but I’d soon find out. 

Also, I’d like to add that I’ve always been pretty good at expressing my inner feelings, and I’m definitely a true romantic. I believe in true love, love at first sight, and finding the one person in life you’re meant to be with. After watching the movie The Notebook eight years ago in the theater, I remember thinking to myself, I could do that. I could write a story like that. In fact, most of us probably could. That’s because we all have experienced the loss of a loved one at some point in our lives. And for far too many of us, and for whatever circumstances, the one we loved was “the one who got away.” I’ve had one, and chances are, you’ve had one too! Sand Dollar tells of such a love – a love gained, a love lost, and through it all, a love that just won’t die.


Q. Such a soulful and touching story! A great way to start your career as a novelist, Sebastian.  I read in your biography that you don’t have a formal education in writing…like many successful authors, after all.  Did this lack represent a challenge or rather an advantage that may have helped you unbridle your creativity? 


Not having any preconceived notions about how you’re supposed to write a novel definitely unbridled my creativity. Among other things, it allowed me to tell a story that mimics the heart-wrenching journey that we call life. And with two timelines and a considerable amount of narration, the story reads more like a movie, which is kind of risky for a first-time author. But it’s one of the things that makes Sand Dollar uniquely different from other novels in its genre, and I couldn’t be more pleased with the result.

However, not having any formal training or education in creative writing definitely made things difficult. But I refused to let a “minor technicality” like that stand in my way. I knew I had an amazing story brewing in my head, one that needed to be born, and I was determined to do whatever it takes to turn it into a well-written novel. Fortunately, I’m the type of person who believes I can achieve anything I set my mind to as long as I give it my all and don’t give up. So I figured I’d pick up the skills along the way, which is exactly what happened. 


What I thought would take a couple of months, took a couple of years. After five months of writing everyplace and everywhere, I finally reached the “finish line” of my manuscript – that magical day when you type, “THE END.” Okay, so I wrote a manuscript; now what? The first thing I did was to copyright it, followed by sending it out to all of my friends who read a lot, to get constructive criticism. This worked out great for me. Then it was back to rewriting the story, and when I was done, I rewrote some more. Next, I hired a professional to critique the story, who gave me some great advice, which meant more rewriting. I soon learned Lesson One in writing: writing is rewriting. There’d always be room for improvement. By this point in time during this process, I felt that the story had risen to a level of brilliance. But what about my writing style and voice? It needed to be just as good as the best-selling authors’, because they don’t put an asterisk next to your name along with an explanation about your education. So I spent months combing through the manuscript, trying to bring the level of writing up to the level of the story. 

When I felt I was ready, I tried soliciting literary agents with a one-page query letter, synopsis, and whatever their submission guidelines called for. Oh, did I mention the Catch 22 in traditional publishing? Apparently, you need a literary agent to get traditionally published. However, in order to get a literary agent, you need to have already been published. So it’s nearly impossible to get an agent unless you’re a famous celebrity, politician, sports figure, etc. Certainly, they’d give me more credence if I had a BFA or MFA in creative writing, which I had not. Like all roads to success, this one’s paved with rejection. And after tons of rejection letters from literary agents, I had a choice to make: give it up or step it up. Since giving up is not really in my vocabulary, I stepped it up. 

So I hired an editor, and the first thing she did was cross off 5,000 unnecessary words. I learned a lot simply by reading her edits and comments, and I became a better writer for it. I had rewritten the manuscript time and time again for a period of two years, and in the process, I learned how to write. Looking back, I had no idea how long it was going to take or how hard it was going to be. Writing the manuscript, however, was the easy part. Navigating the way to a successful book, now that’s the hard part. 


Q. You are quite an inspiration for authors at their first experience! Now, do you find the label of romantic fantasy to be an appropriate one for Sand Dollar? 


I’m so glad you asked that question! Such a simple question; such a complicated answer, ha. At first, I was hesitant to label Sand Dollar as a romance novel because I was afraid that people might associate it with steamy, sexy, or even trashy, which does not describe Sand Dollar at all. However, upon further inspection, I realized that romance is a broad term that encompasses many areas, including mine. Nevertheless, what I really wanted to do was label it a love story, under the umbrella of commercial fiction. However, since love story is not an official BISAC genre – blah, blah, blah -- I’ve labeled it a romantic fantasy (or is it fantasy romance – I don’t know). Does that answer the question? 


Okay, you’re right: romantic fantasy doesn’t quite do the book justice, especially since the fantasy element doesn’t even come into play until the end of the story, albeit along with a complexion-altering twist. So perhaps a more appropriate label would be to call it a contemporary romance, or even a contemporary tragedy, for that matter. In summary, the best label for Sand Dollar is contemporary romance tragedy fantasy or contemporary tragedy fantasy romance – something like that…


But before we complicate things too much, consider this: Is it at all possible that I’ve somehow invented an entirely new genre? One that heretofore has never existed in the annals of publishing? A genre that might have you screaming “W.T.F.” before you toss the book across the room, stomp on it a few times, and then pick it up to continue reading where you left off? A genre that I affectionately refer to as the W.T.F. genre? Nah… On second thought, let’s just label Sand Dollar as a romantic fantasy and call it a day, shall we? 


Q. You are definitely a pathbreaker in the W.T.F. genre, Sebastian! I didn’t have the urge to toss the book against a wall, but I found myself shaking my head quite a few times as in “W.T.F.!!!”. A very moving and engaging story, for sure. Did you write Sand Dollar with a specific audience in mind? 


Yes. My target audience is women and women. Too general? Okay, anyone whose favorite movie/book is The Notebook by Nicholas Sparks. I figure if you like heart-wrenching, tearjerker love stories by people like Nicholas Sparks, you’ll love me! As a writer, I did everything in my power to evoke every emotion out of you, good and bad, emotions that, among other things, might have you yelling at the main characters at times. As a result, by the time you’ve reached the end of the book, you’ll feel like you’ve lived an entire life, Noah Hartman’s life. And you’ll be anxious to live another. Interestingly enough, however, even people (including men) who normally don’t read romance novels have stated in their reviews that they were pleasantly surprised with Sand Dollar, and they’d recommend it to their friends. 


Q. Since you mentioned men as unlikely consumers of romantic fiction…male authors and romance: oxymoron or a refreshingly new perspective that sheds light on a man’s (or woman’s) emotional world?
  

An oxymoron, ha! Well, with the exception of a few authors like Nicholas Sparks and myself, I suppose that most would consider it a contradiction. That’s because most publishers require romance novels to be written from the P.O.V (point of view) of the heroine, not the hero. Therefore, it stands to reason that female authors, not male authors, dominate the romance genre. But is it also because men aren’t capable of being in touch with, and expressing, their innermost feelings the way women can? Hardly. But first men have to learn to overcome their childhood, a childhood that teaches them that big boys don’t cry. And along with suppressing tears, they learn to suppress other emotions that would otherwise make them seem vulnerable or weak.  


When we grow up, we want to be a lot like Superman, strong and protective. But then someone like Lois Lane comes around and wants us to also be sensitive and expressive. But it’s hard for us at first because this contradicts our nature. Then one day, we loose the woman of our dreams, and even worse than a piece of Kryptonite tugging at our necks, we find out just how weak and vulnerable we really are. When we finally realize what matters most, we learn to open up about our innermost feelings. We learn that even Superman is entitled to cry. 


Despite society and the risk of appearing vulnerable, there are plenty of men out there who are eager to express their emotions. There are plenty of men out there who’d travel to the end of the earth and back for a woman they love more than life itself. And there are plenty of male authors like myself who can write about it. Sometimes, all it takes is a little piece of Kryptonite, that’s all.  


Q. The strongest muscle in a hero’s body has to be his heart. Less gym and more books, gentlemen! Just kidding. Well, not really.  Let’s dream big…if you were given the chance to see your novel on the big screen, who would you choose as director and main cast?


When I wrote Sand Dollar, I wrote the part of Josh specifically for Morgan Freeman; so definitely Morgan! I’d like to see Emma Stone -- a vivacious, young redhead -- play the role of Robin, and perhaps Channing Tatum as Noah. Although, who wouldn’t want to see Ryan Gosling and Rachel McAdams reunited once again on the big screen? I certainly would! And since my favorite movies are The Notebook and The Family Man, perhaps Nick Cassavetes or Brett Ratner would care to take a shot at directing the movie. And you never know... dreams sometimes do come true, so we might as well dream big! 


Q. Goslin and McAdams…great chemistry there. They would be my pick. Do you plan to incorporate your own life experience also in your next novel? Anything in the works?


To some extent, I think every writer incorporates a part of themselves into their writing, whether drawing from past experiences or inner emotions. In writing my next novel, I’ll do my best to once again draw from that which is deep inside of me. 


Currently, I’m working with my brother on the screenplay adaptation of Sand Dollar. It would make a great movie, don’t you think? And I’ll start writing my next book, shortly. However, if I told you what it was about, I’d have to kill you! (Just kidding!) 


Q. Great movie indeed! As for your next project, I’ll keep an eye on your website for an update. Thanks. Is Sand Dollar available on the shelves of any book retailer? 


Currently, Sand Dollar is only available online at retailers such as Amazon and Barnes & Noble. You can, however, special-order it from just about any bookstore. Hopefully, all of that may soon change, as I’m actively seeking a literary agent again. So stay tuned!


Q. Twitter style, about 140 characters: why should readers pick up Sand Dollar? 


4.6 stars @Amazon. Some reviews call SD the best love story. Many comparisons to Nick Sparks. Unforgettable. Bring Kleenex. Touches soul. HTH :)




Sebastian, it was such a pleasure to have you on the blog.  Best of luck! I hope you will stop by again  with great news about Sand Dollar and a preview of your next release.
 



GIVEAWAY (International)


Sebastian  Cole is generously offering an autographed copy of his debut novel Sand Dollar . Stop by the blog with a question/comment about this interview for a chance to win.  The giveaway is open to all.

*Please, don’t forget to include your email address.


To read a review of Sand Dollar: A Story Of Undying Love by Sebastian Cole, click HERE.




18 comments:

  1. Wow. I have to admit I have not seen or read The Notebook. After reading this, I think that Sebastian Cole is well spoken. I want to pick up this book, and would love to see it as a movie. And I haven't read the book yet. But I will, thanks to reading this.

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  2. Wow. I have not seen or read The Notebook. But after reading this and seeing how well spoken Sebastian Cole is, I want to read this book. Just from reading this, it sounds like it would make a great movie.

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    1. Thanks, Erika!

      I appreciate your kind comments. Would you like a copy of the book?

      Sebastian Cole
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  3. I am a big fan of the notebook, so definately want to read this one. Love reading romance from a male writer, obviously a big fan of Nicholas Sparks.
    My questions for you are: Do you get a chance to read much? And if you do what is your favorite genre to read? Also is this book going to be a stand-alone or a series? Thanks for the chance to win.
    Christinebails at yahoo dot com

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    1. Hi, Christine,

      Thanks for your question. We both have that in common -- we're both big Nicholas Sparks fans! If you end up reading Sand Dollar, I'd love to hear how I compare.

      To answer your question, Sand Dollar is the first book I've written, and prior to writing it, I didn't read nearly as much as I would have liked to. However, now that I'm a published author, reading is nearly as important as writing, if not more, so I've got a lot of ground to make up. Since I love a good tearjerker, I've been reading Nicholas Sparks, of course!

      Sand Dollar is a stand-alone novel that I'd love to be made into a movie someday. The plot is such that it doesn't lend itself to a series, unfortunately. I've considered writing a sequel, much like The Wedding is a sequel to The Notebook, but I feel my efforts would be better spent covering new ground. I've got dozens of ideas for my next novel, but I need to decide whether I should write another love story, to keep things consistent, or write the story that I feel would make the best movie, even if it's a different genre. What do you think I should do?

      Thanks for your question, Christine. Good luck in the contest. I hope you win!

      Sebastian
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  4. Must put SD in my TBR pile.

    I think you should write the sequel, since I always want to know what happens after the book is finished. I can always imagine where the story goes, but it's always good to see where the author takes it. Plus, if the story in the book is good, I'm sure it'll be good in a movie (that's if whomever makes the movie doesn't take important things out of the book. Books are almost always better then their movie versions, at least I think).

    Thanks Mina for the giveaway and thanks Sebastian for sharing with us!

    mj(dot)emma64(at)gmail(dot)com

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    1. Hi, Emma,

      Thanks for your comments and advice! I suppose now would be a good time to discuss the story a little bit. Sand Dollar is an epic love story about one man's journey through life, Noah Hartman's journey, and his undying love for his one true love, his soul mate, Robin, who also happens to be the one who got away.

      The story starts off at the end of Noah's journey, the final chapter of his life. Eighty years old and sick in a hospital bed, he tells his life story of love and loss to a compassionate orderly, Josh. We are then transported back in time to when he was 34, right before meeting Robin. He meets the love of his life (Robin), but then looses her, only for her to show up years later at his wedding ceremony to another woman. The story jumps back to present day in the hospital room, where both women are in the room. But which one did he choose?

      We find out this answer, along with a surprising plot twist, and the story moves forward with the most beautiful of endings. Each of these two timelines is a story within a story, but the book focuses mainly on the earlier timeline, a period in Noah's life between the ages of 34 and 53.

      I suppose I could write a prequel about his life before he meets Robin. This could include his interactions as a child with his extremely powerful and manipulative parents, providing us with important insight into his character. (Sand Dollar already has shocking flashbacks to his childhood.) Or I could write a sequel that starts off where the first timeline ends, primarily when he's 53, forced to chose between his bride and the woman who interrupts his wedding ceremony, Robin. And in this sequel, perhaps the woman whom he doesn't choose returns to sabotage his relationship with the one he does choose. Hmm, now you've got me thinking...

      Thanks for your suggestion, Emma! Good luck in the contest!

      Sebastian
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  5. I love the notebook so definitely look forward to your book. Will look for your book next time I am in the library/bookstore. Congrats on your book! :)

    maybe31 at yahoo.com

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    1. Awesome! Thanks, May. I appreciate your comments. For more information about Sand Dollar, you can visit my website, if you'd like, at http://sebastiancoleauthor.com. Have a nice night, and good luck in the contest!

      Sebastian
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  6. Very nice interview.

    bn100candg(at)hotmail(dot)com

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    1. Thanks! That's really nice of you to say that. I hope you have a wonderful day!

      Sebastian
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  7. To admit, I have not watch the notebook yet, but promise to my friend that I will watch it soon because this movie is truly awesome, can't wait.

    Sand Dollar sounds promising, I will going to buy more tissue then :D

    thanks for the giveaway, I'm excited

    eli_y83@yahoo.com

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    1. Hi, Eli,

      I love when people compare Sand Dollar to The Notebook. You're going to love that movie! The Notebook is many people's favorite love story. It was originally a book before it was made into a movie. It would be a dream come true if Sand Dollar were ever made into a movie. And yeah, I might owe you a box of Kleenex by the time you're done reading it. Sand Dollar should come with a travel-pack of Kleenex!

      Have a great day and good luck in the contest. I hope you win!

      Sebastian
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  8. Great interview. I also love NS books so this one will be right up my alley. I love books that you get emotion with. They are forever books. =)

    Mary
    mary_reiss @ hotmail.com

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    1. Hi, Mary,



      Thanks for mentioning that! Many people who have read Sand Dollar, especially those who have lost a loved one, have stated in their reviews that they felt the book was written just for them, as if I put into words what they have always felt. And many have said that they plan on rereading it throughout the years, holding it close to the hearts. Even if Sand Dollar never makes it big, knowing that I have touched the lives of others through my writing has been the single most gratifying thing I have ever done in my life.

      Thanks for the great comment, Mary. Good luck in the contest!



      Sebastian

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  10. don't get to read as much as i would like to , but love to win things, and love supporting fellow writers! i'm sure your book is absolutely wonderful Sebastian, i hope you sell a gazillion of em!

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    1. Shellie Blum, as in the first female freestyle waterski ramp jumper in the world, Shellie Blum? I hope you don't mind, but when you said you were a fellow writer, I had to google you! :) That's very nice of you to say; I hope I sell a gazillion of them, too! I hope you win! Thanks for the comment, Shellie!

      Sebastian
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