In her intuitive's guide to finding and keeping love, I SEE YOUR SOUL MATE (St. Martin's Press, 2012, Amazon), life coach Sue Frederick claims that there are no outside circumstances that can keep us from finding true love: love is the energy we swim in, the fabric of our divine universe, the very essence of our DNA. "Heartbreak and loneliness occur not because of what anyone else has done to you, not because you're unattractive, and not because there aren't enough single people your age....Only YOU stand in your way." We experience pain and loneliness when we forget our life mission and stop embracing the person we came here to be. It's when we walk on the life path we were meant for that our chances to find true love enhance dramatically, and the best way to cross paths with The Right One is reclaiming our True Self.
Whether your approach to love and life is a fatalistic one (my 'other half' is somewhere out there and if I can't find him/her I'll be doomed to eternal unhappiness) or you believe in your ability to control your life and to find happiness in yourself rather than in that one person the universe has supposedly intended for you (because nobody can 'complete' us but ourselves; there is a multiplicity of people and experiences that can help us achieve that inner wholeness and chances are one of them will suit us and our life circumstances better than anyone or anything else), this time of the year inevitably turns into a wake-up call, nudging us to wonder if, when, where, and how we can attract fulfilling love relationships back in our lives.
Harper Collins is offering a few ebook deals for this Valentine's Day week, in the self-help, relationship, guide category. Grab these offers before they expire: they may help you turn your love life around and certainly won't hurt your wallet. Here they are:
THE SOULMATE SECRET will show you how to take control of your romantic destiny by using the Law of Attraction. Finding true love is possible for anyone at any age if you are willing to prepare yourself, on all levels, to become a magnet for love. Arielle Ford knows this from experience. She used the techniques in this book to bring her soul mate into her life at age forty-four. They were engaged three weeks later. The ebook is available for only $ 1.99
Love. We want it. We need it. We pay it homage with songs and poems and great works of art. And when we lose it, there's no pain as intense or excruciating. As the editor of a column about love for the New York Times, Daniel Jones reads thousands of stories about people's intimate relationships. In LOVE ILLUMINATED, he teases apart this mystifying emotion that thrills, crushes, and sustains. HarperCollins is running a promo on this one: purchase from their website before February 10 and get up to 25% off.